Prenup, Prenup, Everybody Prenup

 

 

 

 

 

Gabrielle Union said some of the truest words that I've heard recently while being interviewed by Arsenio Hall. "The biggest difference between this marriage and the last marriage will be a prenup. At my insistence!" Union said. "When you have your own stuff you don't have to worry about anyone else's stuff. So everyone should go into the relationship, everyone should know, that you're here for me."

 

 

I love being in love but when I get married I don't care if I have $5 or $500,000 in the bank a prenup is required. People love to say that a prenup is practice for divorce and that's absolute bullshit. Most relationships don't end because people fall out of love. A lot of marriages result in divorce over KOINS. If you take money out of the equation then you know that the person that you marry is their for you and not for the financial security that you bring to the table.

 

We broke up. Now what?

"You is kind, you is smart, you is important."
This is what I tell myself when I look in the mirror. When I wonder what went wrong. When I start to miss you.
          

I tell myself that this is for the best. You need to work on you. Become a better man and learn how to be happy.

Now we're apart. You call and I answer then we shoot the breeze about everything but us. I'm no longer Carebear, sweetie, or baby.I'm Simone. It sucks.

Here's what happens now. Thirty minutes of tears were approved. One day to mourn the death of Simone and Alan's relationship was granted.
There will be no shutting down. I'm twenty-five years young with a full and vibrant life ahead. I don't know what the future has but I can't be Carrie looking for my own Mr. Big if I'm constantly replaying the past.